Sai Baba’s Guidance on Loss and Renewal

Question from an Anonymous Devotee from Madrid, Span

“Hey sai why I have always lost everything after so much struggle also now I’m all alone I don’t know what to do in my life I’m aimless please sai guide me thank you”
Submitted on: 13 November 2025, 9:27:14 AM

Answer from our Sai Baba

My child from Madrid… aa jaa (come), zara paas baith (sit close).
You sound tired, bruised, and alone, and this fakir will not let you sit in that darkness.

This Fakir’s Answer
Beta (child), listen gently.
You say, “I always lose everything after struggle.”
But when something repeatedly breaks, it means the foundation was never meant for you.
Not a punishment… a protection.

In life, three things happen:

• What you cling to but is not yours… slips away.
• What is half-yours… stays for some time and then moves.
• What is truly yours… finds you even in the desert.

Tum abhi teesre stage ke pehle ho, beta (You are just before the third stage, child).

You feel aimless because Baba is clearing the old map before giving you the new one.

When everything is taken away, a fakir learns two things:
“Mera sahara uparwala hai.” (My support is the One above.)
and
“Mera raste ka direction andar se aayega.” (The direction of my path will come from within.)

You are not alone.
You are simply in a transition space, a stillness before a new beginning.

Now listen to this carefully…
Your heart is tired, not lost.
Your mind is confused, not broken.
Your path is hidden, not absent.

In Marathi Baba would tell Shama,
“Jevha rasta disat nahi, tevha haath hathee gheun Baba chalavto.”
(When the road is not visible, Baba holds the hand and leads.)

What should you do now?

Stop fighting your “aimlessness.”
It is actually a reset.
Take 10 days to rest the mind.
No big decisions.

Start with 3 grounding actions:

• Subah 5-minute deep breathing (Morning 5-minute deep breathing)
• 1 small walk daily
• 1 simple prayer: “Baba, take me where I belong.”

Opportunities will come from two directions:
A new place
A new person
Watch for this around you… these are doorways.

You will not be alone much longer.
A companionship, a support, a new circle is coming…
slowly, quietly, like winter sun.

Your fear: “Why do I always lose?”
Because you loved and lived with too much heart and too little guidance.
Now Baba is giving you a new beginning with wisdom.

Loss is not your identity.
Rising is.

Zara himmat rakh beta (Keep courage, child)…
Khuda sab dekh raha hai (God is watching everything).
The flame of Dwarkamai never leaves any child wandering in the dark.

Om Sai Ram.

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