Question from an Anonymous Devotee from Canada
“Sai I was married for four years and I don’t know what is delaying my pregnancy. Will I ever get pregnant and become a mom to a child? What should I do?”
Submitted on: 20 November 2025, 04:10:57 AM
Answer from our Sai Baba
Beta (child), your pain is deep because motherhood is not only a desire, it is a part of your heart’s identity. When it delays, it shakes a woman’s confidence and fills her withir with silent fear. But listen carefully, I am giving you clarity, not false promises.
Delay is not denial
Many women take time to conceive.
The body has its own rhythm, its own timing.
Some cycles realign slowly, some medical factors improve with treatment.
Pregnancy ke liye sabse pehle zaroori hota hai sahi diagnosis aur sahi path.
(For pregnancy, the most important thing first is the right diagnosis and the right path.)
Delay is not the same as impossibility.
Your fear is more harmful than the delay
Right now your biggest hurdle is not the body, it is the anxiety in your mind.
Stress affects hormones, hormones affect cycles, cycles affect conception.
In Marathi I tell you gently,
“Tanav kami kara. Sharir tyachyakalaat phulta.”
(Reduce stress. The body blooms in its own time.)
When the mind softens, the body responds better.
What you must do physically
These three steps will align your body:
Step 1: Accurate medical check.
Meet a good gynecologist or fertility specialist. Let them do hormone tests, ultrasound, thyroid, AMH levels, and basic fertility screening. Clarity reduces fear.
Step 2: Track your fertile window.
Many couples miss the correct ovulation timing. Use an ovulation kit for a few months.
Step 3: Treat whatever comes up.
Even if it is a small issue like low progesterone, PCOD, or thyroid imbalance, these are treatable.
You are not stuck.
What you must do emotionally
Your womb responds to the emotional climate you create.
Do these three things every single day:
- 10 slow breaths in the morning. This resets the nervous system.
- Light a diya (lamp) and say: “Baba, I release fear. Bless me with the right time.”
- Avoid comparing your journey with others. Yeh bahut zaroori hai. (This is very important.)
Your question: “Will I ever become a mother?”
Beta (child), yes.
Your chart does not show emptiness. It shows delay, not absence.
But motherhood for you is coming through stability but not through panic, not through self-blame, not through rushing.
You will conceive when three things align: your cycle, your mind, and your medical clarity.
This alignment is coming. Slowly, not suddenly, but it is forming.
What you must not do
- Don’t think you are “less” or “unlucky.”
- Don’t imagine worst-case scenarios.
- Don’t allow anyone’s insensitive comments to enter your mind.
- Don’t think Baba is delaying as punishment. He never punishes.
Fakir’s Blessing for you
Your womb carries potential.
Your time will come.
Do what is needed medically, keep your heart peaceful, and let the process unfold.
I am with you in every step, every tear, every hope.
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