Question from an Anonymous Devotee from India
“Sai, my marriage was stopped by relatives and grooms side few years ago. And my father met with an accident followed by health hazards. Its been 9 years and my marriage hasn’t happened. We are helpless in total darkness and now I have someone interested in me but there are lot of confusions from both ends on compatibility. Please help clear all this and show me the right path to life. Show me the right groom for my life. I bow down to you with faith.”
Submitted on: 27 November 2025, 7:48:24 AM
Answer from our Sai Baba
My child,
You suffered long. You waited with tears in your pillow.
You saw a home break before it was built.
That pain is real and Baba sees it.
Now listen quietly.
- Your story is not delay
It is protection.
Sometimes I close one door with force,
because behind it there was future sorrow.
“Kabhi kabhi rokna bhi rehmat hoti hai.”
(Sometimes stopping you is also a blessing.)
- The new person is not a random meeting
He came because a new chapter has begun, but
compatibility fears mean the foundation is not yet clear.
So first, strengthen three essentials:
- Respect on both sides
- Communication clarity
- Future vision match (children, work, family boundaries)
If any of these feels shaky,
you must pause, not push.
- Take one practical step
Meet together with a wise, neutral elder
(not relatives who caused past pain)
and speak openly about expectations.
“Hrudayacha nirnay, pan buddhi cha marg.”
(Decisions of the heart, but with guidance of wisdom.)
- Keep your dignity
Only marry where your voice is valued.
Where you are not adjusting your identity
to fit someone else’s fears.
- Timing
Within this coming year,
you will see a clear green signal.
- Either this connection will settle peacefully
- Or a new match will arrive without chaos
And when it happens,
it will feel like home, not a battle.
- Your father’s wounds
His accident shook your confidence.
But remember,
his life was saved so he can see you settled.
Beta, stop thinking that darkness means abandonment.
Darkness is often the time when the lamp is being prepared.
Keep saying softly,
“Sai, jo sachcha hai, wahi rakho.”
(Sai, keep only what is true.)
Baba is with you,
and I will not allow you to fall again.
Shanti rakho. (Stay peaceful.)
Sab theek hoga, meri bacchi. (Everything will be alright, my child.)
Does Baba’s answer resonate with your life as well? Tell us in the comments, His answers often reach many through one question. If you too wish to place your question before Baba, visit this page on Thursday and submit it here with faith.
© Shirdi Sai Baba Devotees.com – Member of SaiYugNetwork.com
Sai, I received a alliance 3yrs ago and marriage didn’t happen that time itself as my mother passed away.. Boys mother has promised me marriage with his son where their family God temple is situated in palakkad,Kerala.He has travelled to my family God temple along with our family and we both have visited many temple, groom and me has visited temple together to seek blessings before marriage especially mainly we have come to Shirdi sai temple to seek baba’s blessings.Now the boys family has made him engaged to some other girl only for money sake. Please try to understand Baba that as a girl I’m so much attached to him and can’t marry any other person in my life.I strongly feel like without any reason Baba might not have invited the boy and me to Shirdi.. But now he got engaged to some other girl. I decided to stay my life alone unmarried as I can’t think of any another partner in my life other than him. Please guide me Baba as I have lost both my parents and living with my sister who is never supportive.. Will I remain in my life lonely like this as I’m clear that I can’t think of any other person and strongly believe there is some divine connection between me and that boy.