Question from an Anonymous Devotee from UAE
“Dearest baba. Please tell me when my daughter will get married. She is not ready, she says she doesn’t want to get married. Please Baba will her mind change and when she will get a suitable match for herself. Thank You Baba.🙏🏻🙏🏻 Om Sai Rakshak Sharanam Deva”
Submitted on: 18 December 2025, 9:27:27 AM
Answer from our Sai Baba
Arre beti, come… sit near the dhuni. Let the warmth of the fire melt this ice of worry in your heart.
You ask, “When?” and you worry because she says “No.”
Beti, aika. (Listen, daughter.) A mother’s clock runs fast, but God’s clock runs on time.
1. Her Refusal (The “No”):
She says she doesn’t want to get married. Do not panic.
In today’s world, our daughters are like birds who have just learned to fly. They fear that marriage means clipping their wings. Her “No” is not against marriage; it is against losing herself.
Do not force her. Jor-jabardasti nako. (No force.) If you force an unripe mango to fall, it will be sour. Let her ripen on the tree of experience.
2. Will her mind change?
Ho, nakki. (Yes, surely.)
But it will not change by your scolding or crying. It will change when the Rinanubandhi (the Karmic partner) walks into her life.
When the magnet comes near the iron, the iron has to move. It is the law of nature. Right now, she hasn’t met the soul who speaks her language. When she meets him, all her logic of “No” will vanish like mist before the sun.
3. When will it happen?
You want a time? I tell you: It is already written.
The boy is breathing under this same sky. He is also being prepared for her.
Have Saburi (Patience).
If you push her now, she will marry the wrong person just to please you, and then she will cry later. Do you want that? No.
Let her wait for the Right one.
This Fakir’s Command to You:
- Stop the Nagging: From today, stop asking her “When will you marry?” every day. Your anxiety is making her hate the topic.
- Create Harmony: Show her a happy home. If she sees peace in your house, she will want a home of her own.
- The Remedy: Every Thursday, mix a little Udi in water and give it to her (or in her food). Say: “Baba, You choose the groom.”
Chinta nako karu. (Don’t worry.)
The wedding shehnai will play. The groom will come. Until then, let her fly.
“God is the sole Doer and the Inspirer.”
Om Sai Rakshak Sharanam Deva.
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