Sai Baba Guidance for Feeling Lost and Helpless

Question from an Anonymous Devotee from Spain Madrid

“Sai You know what is happening in my life. Nothing is going well. My full family is scattered. I feel lost. I don’t know anything. Please You have to show me the light in my life now. I’m in darkness thank You Sai.”
Submitted on: 18 December 2025, 9:17:55 AM


Answer from our Sai Baba

Arre beti, yee ikde (come here)… come out of that corner of shadows. Sit here, right in front of this Dhuni.

You say you are in “darkness”? Arre, look at the fire. Does the fire ever go out? Even if the whole world is dark, My Dhuni is always burning. And if you are sitting near Me, how can you be in the dark?

You say your family is scattered and you feel lost. Mnnn, I hear the pain of a mother hen when her chicks are wandering in the storm. It hurts, barobar? (Correct?)

But listen to this Fakir’s words:

1. The Nature of the Storm:

You think “nothing is going well.” Beti, when a house is being renovated, it looks like a mess first. The walls are broken, dust is everywhere. But the Architect knows He is building a stronger house.

Your family is going through a “Renovation” by the Malik. The scattering is temporary. It is to break old patterns and egos. Ghabrayacha nahi. (Do not be afraid.) The dust will settle.

2. You are the Anchor:

You say you feel “lost.”

If the ship is tossing in the waves, the Anchor must dig deep into the ocean floor. You are that Anchor for your family.

If you panic, the ship drifts further.

If you stand firm in Shraddha (Faith), even the scattered members will find their way back to you. They need your strength, not your tears.

3. Seeking the Light:

You ask Me to show you the light.

Beti, the light is not outside; it is in your Saburi (Patience).

When the night is darkest, the dawn is closest.

Do not try to fix everyone right now. You cannot tie the wind.

Instead, fix your own connection with Me. When the center is strong, the circle becomes whole again.

This Fakir’s Command to You:

  • The Lamp: Every evening, light a small diya (oil lamp) in your house. Look at that tiny flame and say: “Baba, just as this flame burns in the dark, keep my hope burning.”
  • The Surrender: Stop carrying the burden of the “Whole Family” on your head. Put it down at My feet. Say: “Baba, You are the Head of this family. You bring them together.”

Radu nako, beti. (Don’t cry, daughter.)

You are not in darkness; you are just in a tunnel. Keep walking. I am holding the lantern at the other end.

“If you look to Me, I look to you.”

Allah Malik sab theek karega.

Ramji tumcha kalyaan karu de.


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