Question from an Anonymous Devotee from Chennai
“Baba, whether the girl whom I love will return and talk to me again..whether the misunderstanding will get solved and whether I will marry her..shall I wait?? If so, when?”
Submitted on: 25 December 2025, 10:25:13 AM
Answer from our Sai Baba
Beta, sit quietly and listen with a steady heart.
What you are feeling is very human. When love breaks into silence, the mind keeps asking the same questions again and again. Waiting becomes painful, and hope starts mixing with fear.
Man atakla aahe (the mind feels stuck)
Now I must speak to you honestly and with care.
First truth.
No one can promise that a person will return, talk again, or marry. Love cannot be forced, predicted, or fixed by waiting alone. Baba never gave such guarantees, because that would bind your life to uncertainty.
Dusrya manacha nirnay aapan nahi ठरवू shakat (we cannot decide another person’s choice)
Second truth.
Misunderstandings get solved only when both sides want to talk. Silence for a long time usually means the other person has chosen distance, even if it is painful to accept.
Prem bolto, shant basat nahi (love speaks, it does not remain silent)
Now hear this carefully, without fear.
Waiting is meaningful only when there is clarity. Waiting without communication slowly harms self respect and peace. Baba never asked anyone to suffer endlessly in hope.
Tum thambun rahu shakta, pan swatah la visru naka (you may pause, but do not forget yourself)
About whether you should wait.
If there is a way to send one calm, respectful message asking for clarity, you may do that once. Not repeatedly. Not emotionally. Just once.
If there is still no response, then silence itself becomes the answer, even if it hurts.
This is not rejection of your worth. It is a mismatch of readiness or choice.
Now about marriage.
Marriage needs two people choosing each other freely. Love alone is not enough. Willingness, communication, and commitment are required. If only one side is waiting, marriage cannot grow from that place.
Lagav asu shakta, pan lagna donanchi tayyari pahije (attachment may exist, but marriage needs readiness from both)
Please listen to this line with care.
Your life is not on pause because someone is silent.
You are allowed to heal, grow, and remain open to future happiness. Sometimes what feels like loss is protection from deeper pain later.
Baba’s way is to bring you back to strength, not to keep you waiting in sorrow.
Tumhala shantata ani himmat milel (you will receive calmness and courage)
Take care of your mind. Keep your dignity. If the path reopens naturally, you will know. If it does not, another path will appear with more clarity.
Allah Malik.
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