Are constant fights and misunderstandings hurting a loving relationship and pushing you into a painful break? Sai Baba Guidance For Relationship Conflict helps you regain calm, reduce anger, and understand whether patience and clarity can restore balance.
Question from an Anonymous Devotee from Hyderabad, India
"I have been in a healthy relationship since 2024; there were no misunderstanding, arguments but since 2026, we both started fighting over little things, slowly, the hatred has begun. We both love each other, Sai, but due to misunderstandings and anger, he has come to a decision to take a break. Even he loves me, he is not able to handle this daily because he already has a lot of financial burden. We both want to stay together, Sai. Will this phase get over, and will we forever stay together."
Submitted on: January 15, 2026, 9:46:48 AM
Answer from our Sai Baba
Beti, read this slowly and with honesty toward your own heart.
What you are describing is not the end of love, it is the strain of pressure entering love. When financial burden, daily stress, and unspoken fears pile up, even a healthy relationship starts reacting in ways that feel like hatred. Most times, it is not hatred. It is exhaustion speaking loudly.
Pyar kam nahi hua, thakaan bol rahi hai (love has not reduced, exhaustion is speaking)
Now listen carefully.
This phase has come because both of you are emotionally overloaded. Small issues become big when patience is low. Anger rises when a person feels powerless in other areas of life, like money, responsibility, or future fear.
bahercha tanav nati var yeto (external stress enters the relationship)
About the break he has asked for.
A break is not always rejection. Sometimes it is a person saying, “I cannot breathe right now.” If he still loves you but feels unable to handle daily conflict, then space is being asked to reduce damage, not to end things.
thoda fasla kabhi kabhi bachaata (sometimes a little distance protects)
Now the most important truth.
You cannot fix this phase by
convincing
pleading
repeated explanations
That increases pressure.
You can help this phase pass by doing three things.
Reduce emotional load, not increase communication
For now, speak less, but speak calmly.
No long arguments.
No revisiting old fights.
Let silence heal instead of punish.
shantata upchar aste (silence can be medicine)
Separate love from daily stress
Do not mix his financial stress with relationship worth. His anger is not about you alone. It is about life weight. When that weight reduces, softness often returns.
dard ka gussa pyar pe girta (anger from pain falls on love)
Work on your own steadiness
When one person becomes calmer, the relationship gets a chance to reset. Do not mirror anger. Mirror stability.
Now about your question, “Will this phase get over and will we stay together forever?”
Listen gently.
No relationship survives on guarantees.
Relationships survive on timing, patience, and emotional maturity.
This phase can pass if
anger is not fed
space is respected
pressure is reduced
ego is softened
Forever is not decided in moments of crisis. It is decided in how you behave during crisis.
Tum dono abhi pariksha mein ho, faisle mein nahi (you both are in a test, not at a final decision)
Do not fear the word “break”. Fear constant conflict more. Use this time to let emotions cool, not to predict endings.
May anger dissolve into understanding, may stress lose its grip on love, may space bring clarity instead of distance, and may patience protect what still has warmth and truth.
Sabka Malik Ek.
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