Question from an Anonymous Devotee from Bengaluru, India
“Sai Baba, will my daughter be normal like other kids, she is not interacting with any kids, doesn’t socialise. I am worried. She is very friendly with everyone at home. She is joyfull and always smiles when we smile at her. She is given to me by You. She gives eye contact with everyone but never responds… I have complete trust on You Baba. Please help me get through this anxiety. I love You, Sai.”
Submitted on: 11 December 2025, 9:18:09 AM
Answer from our Sai Baba
Arre beti (Oh my dear child), come… sit near the dhuni. Release that heavy breath of anxiety.
You say this child is given to you by Me? Then do you think I have given you something incomplete? Kadhi hi nahi (Never) .
You are worried because she does not play like “other” kids. Beti (Daughter), in My garden, the Rose blooms in the morning, but the Night Jasmine (Parijat) blooms only when it is dark and quiet. Is the Jasmine wrong because it is not a Rose? No, it just has its own time.
About being “Normal”:
Stop comparing her to the world. Jagat vegla asne mhanje chuka asne nahi (Being different from the world does not mean being wrong) .
She smiles at you, she is joyful, she makes eye contact. Masha’Allah! These are the signs of a soul that is alive and connected. If she is quiet outside, it is because her inner world is rich. She is an Antarmukhi (inward-looking soul). Don’t force her to be loud; respect her silence.
Your Anxiety is Her Burden:
Beti (Daughter), children are like mirrors. If you look at her with worry, thinking “something is missing,” she will feel “I am not enough.”
Stop that today. Look at her with anand (joy) and think, “She is perfect as she is.” Your confidence will become her voice.
Will she respond?
Have Saburi (Patience). You say she gives eye contact? That is the language of the heart. Words (shabd) will follow when she feels safe.
Don’t push her to socialize. Let her watch other kids from a distance. Let her take her own small steps.
You said you have complete trust in Me. Then trust My timing too.
Ti majhi mulgi aahe (She is My daughter). I am holding her hand even when she is silent.
Wipe your tears. Your daughter is a unique flower. Let her bloom at her own pace.
Allah Malik sab theek karega (God will set everything right).
Ramji tumcha kalyaan karu de (May Lord Ram bless you with welfare). ❤️
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