Do you feel ignored by God even after praying again and again while pain stays the same? Sai Baba Guidance For Feeling Ignored In Pain speaks to devotees who feel unseen, unheard, and tired of waiting, yet still hold on to faith.
Question from an Anonymous Devotee from the United States
"Baba enduku nenu entha adigina Nuvvu naa badha pattinchukovatledu?(Baba, why is it that no matter how much I ask/beg You, You don't seem to care about my pain/suffering?)"
Submitted on: January 15, 2026, 9:30:00 AM
Answer from our Sai Baba
Beti, sit quietly and read this with an open, tired heart. What you are saying comes from deep hurt, not from anger. When pain stays long and answers do not come the way we expect, the heart starts asking, “Do I matter at all?”
This question does not make you weak. It makes you honest.
Jab dard lamba ho jaata, toh mann poochta hai (when pain lasts long, the mind asks questions)
Now listen to this gently, without fear.
It is not that your pain is unseen or uncared for. It feels uncared for because the relief you are asking for has not arrived in the form or timing you hoped. Care is not absence of pain. Often, care is keeping you standing when you thought you would collapse.
Agar dekhoge pichhe, tum abhi bhi khadi ho (if you look back, you are still standing)
You say you ask and beg, and nothing changes.
Here is a hard but healing truth.
Begging comes from desperation.
Desperation exhausts the heart.
Exhaustion makes silence feel like rejection.
Silence is not abandonment. Silence is space for strength to form.
shantata mhanje durava nahi (silence does not mean distance)
When pain is constant, the mind starts measuring love by outcomes. But love is not proven by instant solutions. Love is proven by not letting you lose yourself completely, even when answers delay.
Ask yourself this quietly.
Have you been destroyed by this pain?
Or have you been changed, hardened in some places, wiser in others?
Dukh todta nahi, ghadavta (suffering does not destroy, it shapes)
This does not mean you must accept suffering quietly or stop asking for relief. It means this phase is asking you to change the way you ask.
Not “Why don’t you care?”
But “What am I being asked to learn, protect, or release?”
dil se baat karo, ilzaam mat lagao (speak from the heart, do not accuse)
Also hear this with care.
If your pain is overwhelming, affecting sleep, health, or daily life, seeking human support is not lack of faith. It is part of care. Love reaches us through people too.
Madat lena bhi sahara hota (taking help is also support)
You are not ignored.
You are not invisible.
You are not unloved.
You are in a season where comfort is slow, but strength is quietly growing.
May your pain feel heard, may bitterness soften into understanding, may support reach you in the right form, and may you feel less alone even before answers arrive.
Parvardigar tumhare dil ko sukoon de.
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