Feeling confused about emotional attraction after marriage and unsure what is right? Sai Baba explains how emotional fidelity protects peace, dignity, and marital balance.
Question from an Anonymous Devotee from Mumbai, India
“Kya shaadi hone ke baad kisi aur se maansik prem karna sahi hai?”
Submitted on: January 8, 2026, 9:50:48 AM
Answer from our Sai Baba
My child, listen carefully and without fear.
Marriage is not only a social bond.
It is a commitment of trust, safety, and responsibility.
Feeling attraction or emotional pull can happen to the human mind.
The mind reacts before wisdom steps in.
That alone does not make you wrong.
But Baba wants you to understand the difference.
Mansik prem tab shuru hota hai jab man kisi aur ka sahara dhundhne lage
(Emotional attachment begins when the mind starts seeking support elsewhere).
After marriage, nurturing emotional closeness with another person breaks inner alignment.
It creates confusion, guilt, and restlessness.
Slowly, it weakens both your heart and your marriage.
Ask yourself honestly.
- Are you escaping loneliness?
- Are you seeking validation?
- Are you avoiding a hard conversation at home?
Yeh prem nahi, man ka bhatakna hota hai
(This is not love, it is the mind drifting).
Baba does not judge you.
He guides you.
If your marriage lacks warmth, address it with clarity or boundaries.
If your heart feels empty, fill it with self-respect and truth, not secrecy.
Emotional honesty is also loyalty.
Prem jo chupana pade, woh shanti nahi deta
(Love that must be hidden never gives peace).
Turn inward.
Choose clarity over comfort.
Choose dignity over temptation.
Baba holds your hand when you choose the right path.
Allah Malik.
Sab Ka Malik Ek.
Ramji Bala Kare.
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