Question from an Anonymous Devotee from Dholpur, India
“Baba, I love someone, I dont know she loves me or not. I want to get married with her please guide me?”
Submitted on: 25 December 2025, 9:58:52 AM
Answer from our Sai Baba
Beta, listen calmly and without hurry.
Love makes the heart hopeful, but also restless. What you are feeling is very human. Wanting clarity and wanting marriage is not wrong. But love must walk with truth and consent, not imagination.
Dil ko lagav ho jaata hai, par sach jaan’na zaroori hota (the heart gets attached, but knowing the truth is necessary)
Now listen to this gently.
First truth.
You cannot decide marriage alone. Love becomes marriage only when both hearts choose freely. Until she clearly says she feels the same, you must not assume or pressure yourself or her.
Dusre ke mann ka faisla hum nahi kar sakte (we cannot decide another person’s heart)
Second truth.
Before thinking of marriage, you must first know whether she knows your feelings at all. If there is respectful space to speak honestly, do so once, calmly, without drama or expectation.
Agar haan bole, toh baat aage badhti (if she says yes, the path opens)
Agar na bole, toh dard hota hai, par izzat bachi rehti (if she says no, it hurts, but dignity remains)
Third truth, very important.
Do not turn love into fear or obsession. Love that makes you anxious, desperate, or dependent is asking for grounding, not chasing.
Prem shaant hota hai, ghabrahat nahi (love is calm, not panic)
About marriage.
Marriage needs more than feeling. It needs readiness, families, stability, and mutual clarity. Even true affection needs time to mature.
Now a gentle guidance for you.
Be honest with yourself first.
Speak once, respectfully, when the time feels right.
Accept the answer without resentment.
Keep your self-respect intact.
This is maturity. Baba always valued dignity.
Ek goshta lakshat theva (keep one thing in mind)
If it is meant to be, it will grow naturally. If it is not, life will slowly open another door that fits you better.
Do not force fate. Walk with it.
Chal, mann shaant thev (keep your mind calm)
Sabka Malik Ek.
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