Question from an Anonymous Devotee from Kushalnagar
“Will I marry whom I love with parents acceptance. Will I leave happily with him?”
Submitted on: 11 December 2025, 9:17:53 AM
Answer from our Sai Baba
Arre meri bacchhi (Oh my dear child), come here… sit near the dhuni. You did not give your name, but Baba knows the beat of every heart that longs for love.
You are young, just 23, like a flower that has just opened to the sun. You ask three big things: Marriage to your love, Parents’ happiness, and Your own happiness.
Listen carefully, beti (daughter). “Rinanubandhachya gathoda.” (The bundle of karmic debts).
Marriage is not just about two hearts liking each other, it is about Rinanubandh (karmic connection). If your souls are tied by the thread of past karma, then no power on earth can stop you from uniting. Not parents, not caste, not money. Jiska jod Malik ne likha hai, woh hokar rahega (What the Master has written, will surely happen).
About Parents’ Acceptance:
Beti (Daughter), parents oppose not out of hate, but out of fikr (worry). They want your safety. Do not fight them with anger. Win them with Saburi (patience).
If your love is true (sacha), it will have the strength to wait. Show your parents that this boy makes you a better person, a more responsible daughter. When they see your stability, their hearts will melt. Ghabrayacha nahi (Do not be afraid).
About Living Happily:
You ask, “Will I live happily?”
Happiness is not a gift you get at the wedding mandap, beti (daughter). It is a crop you grow every day.
In the Satcharitra, I taught that the grihastha ashram (family life) is a tapasya (spiritual discipline). If you both have Samajh (understanding) and are ready to bend like grass in the wind, then yes, you will be happy.
If this boy is your Rinanubandhi (karmically connected one), the Malik will smooth the path. Keep your faith strong. Light a small lamp and leave the decision to the One who writes the destiny.
“God is the Sole Doer and Protector.”
Allah bhala karega
(God will do good). ❤️
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