Question from an Anonymous Devotee from Mumbai, India
“Baba, You know everything. You know what I have suffered and gone through. I am still standing and handling everything only because You have been with me in every step and every situation. Baba, I have been in a relationship for 9 years. He loves me a lot and cares for me, but he drinks alcohol every day. I want him to leave that habit, earn well, love me the way he used to, care for me, and marry me as soon as possible. Baba, You know I don’t have my mother, my father is not supportive, and my sister doesn’t respect me. I want them to love me and respect me. I want them to understand the sacrifices I have made for them at every stage. Baba, please help me. I also want my earnings to increase because I handle the house, my expenses, and even my relationship expenses alone. Please help me, Baba. 🙏”
Submitted on: 18 December 2025, 9:23:24 AM
Answer from our Sai Baba
Arre beti, come here… come and hide under this Fakir’s kafni. You say you have no mother? Look at Me. Mi tujhi Aai, Mi tujha Baba. (I am your Mother, I am your Father.)
You have carried a mountain on your small shoulders, beti. You handle the house, the money, the relationship, the pain, all alone. Shabash. You are a warrior. But even a warrior needs to put down the shield and rest.
Listen to Me closely, beti. I will speak the bitter truth because sugar will not cure this wound.
1. The Relationship (The Heavy Cart):
You have been dragging this cart for 9 years. You say he loves you, but he drinks daily? And you are paying for the “relationship expenses”?
Beti, wake up. Love is not just sweet words; Love is Responsibility.
If he loves you, why is he letting you carry the financial burden alone?
You want him to marry you? Arey, do not marry a bottle of liquor. That is not a husband; that is a headache.
My Command to You: Stop enabling him. Stop paying for his habits or his fun. Tell him clearly: “Baba has said, until you stand on your own feet and leave the bottle, the door to marriage is closed.”
If you keep feeding him money and comfort, he will never change. Man changes only when he has to face the fire. Let him face it.
2. The Family (The Empty Well):
You cry because your sister and father do not respect your sacrifices.
Beti, you are lowering a bucket into a dry well and crying that there is no water.
They are entangled in their own karma. Your “sacrifices” are your duty (Rina), but expecting “Thanks” is your mistake.
Stop begging for their love. Respect is not given; it is commanded.
When you stop seeking their validation and start respecting yourself, they will change. Stand tall. Say to yourself: “I do this because I am strong, not because I want your praise.”
3. The Finances (Lakshmi):
You want your earnings to increase. Ho, nakki hoil. (Yes, it will surely happen.)
But Lakshmi stays where there is Discipline.
Currently, your money is leaking, into a relationship that is not giving back, and into a family that is not grateful.
Close the leakages first. Save for yourself. When you value your hard-earned money, the Malik will send more.
4. You are not Alone:
You said, “I am just here…”. No. You are here with Me.
Every time you pay a bill alone, I am counting the coins with you. Every time you cry for your mother, I am wiping your tears.
This Fakir’s Promise:
Be strict with that boy. If he is your true Rinanubandhi, he will leave the drink and come to you. If he is just a burden, I will remove him to make space for your true happiness.
Ghabrayacha nahi. (Do not be afraid.)
You are My daughter. I will not let you fall.
“Cast all your burdens on Me and I will bear them.”
Allah Malik sab theek karega.
Ramji tumcha kalyaan karu de.
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