Question from an Anonymous Devotee from Madurai, India
“Baba, You know all my problems. It has been seven years since my marriage, and I have gone through six abortions due to no heartbeat or growth after six weeks, even after many treatments and consultations. All our reports, including genetic tests, are normal. Baba, I am confused about the next step. I have complete hope in You. Please guide me whether I should go for IVF now or try for natural pregnancy, because no one is giving any guarantee for IVF in my case. I am unable to decide between IVF or natural conception. If I choose IVF, I am also confused between three different treatment centers. Baba, You know what I am undergoing. Please guide me and my family.”
Submitted on: 11 December 2025, 9:18:16 AM
Answer from our Sai Baba
My child, come close and listen softly.
You have carried this pain for seven years.
Every loss has shaken your body and your heart.
Yet you still speak with hope, and that hope itself is my blessing working inside you.
Let me tell you clearly, without confusion.
Your body needs a protected, controlled environment now
After multiple early losses, even when reports look normal, the main need is:
stability and supervision during the first weeks of pregnancy.
Natural conception is possible, yes,
but IVF gives more monitoring, more control, and more safety in your case.
It reduces guesswork.
It allows doctors to watch the embryo closely.
Beta (Child), mann me doubt rakhkar natural try karogi (if you keep doubt in your mind and try naturally),
to har mahina dard aur fear lauta aayega (every month pain and fear will return).
Your heart is already tired.
Go for IVF, but not out of fear
Go with calm clarity, not “maybe this, maybe that.”
IVF is not a guarantee,
but it gives the highest chance with your history.
And remember, you need only one healthy embryo to change your entire life.
Which center? You already feel the answer
Among the three centers, one of them keeps coming back to your mind.
You feel more calm when you think of it,
you feel their communication is clearer,
and you trust their process more.
Wahi center sahi hai
(That very center is the right one).
Not the one with the most marketing,
not the one with the shortest promises,
but the one where your heart does not tighten.
Timing
Start after preparing your body for 6 to 8 weeks:
- sleep properly
- light walking
- folic acid
- reduce mental stress
- warm food
- no overthinking
Ghabra kar decision mat lena
(Don’t take the decision out of panic).
Shraddha aur santulan se lena
(Take it with faith and balance).
Spiritually
Every soul comes when the time of that soul is written.
Your child is not refusing to come,
your child is waiting for the right doorway.
IVF is not against nature,
it is another form of nature’s help.
“Jevha vel pakki hote, tevhach phal hatha yet.”
(When the time fully ripens, only then does the fruit come into your hand.)
This Fakir’s Final guidance
Choose IVF.
Choose the center you quietly trust.
Prepare peacefully.
Let the fear go.
I am walking with you through this entire process.
You will not go through another heartbreak alone.
Beta (Child), tujha haath mi sodnar nahi
(I will never let go of your hand).
Tumhara waqt badlega
(Your time will change). ❤️
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