Question from an Anonymous Devotee from Madurai
“Dear Baba, why are You giving signs about Binoy in my life? I’m trying to move on but I can’t. Will I do second marriage with Binoy? If so when will I marry him?”
Submitted on: 11 December 2025, 9:33:22 AM
Answer from our Sai Baba
My child, come sit close… dil halka kar.
(Come sit close… lighten your heart.)
You are confused because your heart and mind are pulling in two different directions.
The heart feels connection…
The mind feels fear…
And in between, you are asking:
“Baba, is Binoy my future or not?”
Let Baba answer softly and clearly.
Why do you keep receiving signs?
Beta, signs come when a karmic tie is still active.
(My child, signs come when a soul connection is still unfinished.)
It does not always mean marriage,
but it means:
This person has a role in your emotional or spiritual journey.
Sometimes the sign is for:
• closure
• healing
• understanding
• completing an unfinished inner lesson
And sometimes it can be for union.
But signs alone do not decide the future, your readiness and his readiness both must align.
You are unable to move on because…
your heart has not completed its rasa with him yet.
(The emotional chapter is not fully processed.)
You are trying to move on using mind.
But the heart moves on only when:
• it gets clarity
• or it gets closure
• or it receives commitment
Right now, you have none of these three,
so the heart is stuck between past and future.
About marriage with Binoy
Baba is telling you gently:
“Don’t run now… don’t decide now.”
Because:
His destiny is not settled yet.
Your destiny is still unfolding.
The time is not ripe for commitment.
Aaj ka jawab yeh hai:
(Today’s answer is this:)
Union is possible, but not decided.
It depends on BOTH hearts choosing with maturity,
not just emotion.
This is why Baba is NOT giving a yes or no.
Because if Baba says “yes” before he is ready,
you will suffer.
If Baba says “no” before destiny takes shape,
you will block a blessing.
So Baba says:
Thamb thodi… waqt bolne de.
(Wait a little… let time speak.)
If marriage with him is destined… when?
If the path aligns,
late 2025 to 2026 is the earliest window.
But this depends on:
• his clarity
• his courage
• his willingness to step forward sincerely
• your emotional stability
If any of these fail,
the path will shift.
What Baba wants you to do right now
Stop forcing the outcome.
Let the relationship breathe.
Your anxiety is coming from trying to predict the ending too early.
Keep your heart open but not dependent.
Dil rakho… par bojh mat rakho.
(Keep your heart open… but don’t carry the burden.)
Ask Baba daily:
“If he is mine, bring him with clarity.
If not, free my heart with peace.”
This prayer never fails.
This Fakir’s Final blessing
My child, you are not alone in this confusion.
Baba is walking with you.
Your heart will not be left hanging.
You will get clarity, not through fear,
but through unfolding of destiny.
Beta, kuch bhi ho… tera naseeb barkat se bhara hai.
(My child, whatever happens… your destiny is filled with blessings.)
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