Question from an Anonymous Devotee
“My sister loves one guy. Our family has accepted to marriage but in boy’s family, they not accepting to marriage and so she is crying a lot.”
Submitted on: 18 December 2025, 9:20:17 AM
Answer from our Sai Baba
Aao beti (Come, my child), Baba is listening.
First, listen calmly.
Love becomes painful when it is hanging between hope and uncertainty.
Your sister’s tears are not weakness. They are the weight of waiting without clarity.
When one family agrees and the other delays, Baba asks you to observe actions, not promises.
Real commitment moves toward responsibility. It does not stay silent for long.
Tell your sister this.
She has not done anything wrong by loving.
But she must not lose herself while waiting for acceptance.
Beti (Child), rishte tab hi aage badhte hain jab dono taraf se himmat hoti hai (Relationships move forward only when there is courage from both sides).
Sirf aansuon se rishta pakka nahi hota (A relationship is not confirmed just by tears).
Agar ladka sach mein tayaar hai (If the boy is truly ready), to usse apni family ke saamne khada hona padega (he will have to stand in front of his family).
Prem mhanje sahas (Love means courage).
Jya premat swatahchi kimat ghalavli jate (In a love where one’s own worth is diminished), to Baba tithe thambayla sangto (Baba tells you to stop there).
Baba does not break hearts.
He removes illusions before they break lives.
Ask your sister to pray, not for this marriage alone, but for clarity and strength.
Within some time, the truth will show itself clearly, one way or the other.
Jo milna hoga, izzat ke saath milega (What is meant to be yours will come with respect).
Jo nahi tikna, woh dard dekar bhi sahi, door ho jaayega (What is not meant to last will go away, even if it causes pain).
Sabka Malik Ek (The Master of all is One).
Allah Malik (God is the Master).
Sai tumcha, tumchya bahinicha ani tumchya kutumbacha rakshan karen (Sai will protect you, your sister, and your family).
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