Question from an Anonymous Devotee from Mumbai India
Allah Malik (God is the Master), beta (son)! Come, sit here on the floor of this Dwarkamai. Today is Thursday, and the scent of incense and the love of My children fills the air. You bring a question that many young souls carry, the pressure of the world versus the calling of the heart.
Arre beta, ye toh har ghar ka kissa hai (Hey son, this is the story of every household). You are 29, and your parents are looking at the clock, but you are looking at the sky.
Listen to My guidance with a calm mind.
1. Why the Pressure?
Beta, unka darr dekho, unka dushman mat bano (Son, see their fear, do not become their enemy). Your parents force you because they believe marriage is a shelter for your future. They fear that when they are gone, you will be alone. Their force is love covered in anxiety.
The Action: Do not fight them with anger. Gusse se baat bigadti hai (Anger only worsens matters). Sit with them and speak with Saburi (Patience). Tell them you respect their wish, but a life built on disinterest never becomes a peaceful home.
2. Why Are You Not Interested?
Look within yourself.
Is it because you have not found the right soul. Is it because your heart seeks service or solitude. Is it fear of responsibility.
The Truth: If your heart truly seeks a different path, that is your Dharma. If fear is the reason, remember. Darr ko darr se mat jeeto, vishwas se jeeto (Do not defeat fear with fear, defeat it with faith).
3. The Path of Nishta (Faith)
Arre, tum fikar kyun karte ho? (Why do you worry?) If marriage is written in your Takdeer, I will bring a companion, not a burden. If it is not written, no pressure on earth will make it stay.
4. What You Must Do Today
- The Honest Talk: Speak to your parents once more. Say, “Baba says everything happens in its own time. Let us wait for the Malik’s signal.”
- The Surrender: Stop saying “I am not interested.” Say instead, “Baba, let Your will be done.” When the “I” fades, pressure fades.
- The Wait: Thoda sabar rakho (Have patience). In 29 years, I have provided everything for you. Will I not provide clarity now?
The Fakir’s Blessing
Beta, pareshan hone ka nahi (Son, do not trouble your heart). I sit in your parents’ hearts and in yours. I will soften their insistence. I will clarify your path. Whether you walk alone or with a partner, My hand rests on your head.
Sukoon rakho.
Be fearless. Allah Bhala Karega (God will do good).