Sai Baba’s Guidance on Togetherness with Husband

Question from Priya Bhattacharya from India

“Hey Sai Maa 🙏🏻🌹❤️ I can’t live without my husband. I don’t want us to be separated because of his work. I wish that we could live together in one place again like before. That is my wish. Om Sai Ram 🙏🏻”
Submitted on: 11 December 2025, 9:20:49 AM


Answer from our Sai Baba

Arre Priya beti (Oh Priya my dear child), come… sit near the dhuni. I hear the longing in your voice. It is the cry of a heart that misses its other half.

You called me “Sai Maa”? Then let a mother wipe your tears first.

You say you “can’t live without him.” Beti (Daughter), love is a strong thread, but sometimes distance is the test that makes the knot tighter. When the gold is put in the fire, it doesn’t burn; it becomes pure. This distance is that fire.

The Pain of Separation:
I know, beti (daughter), living apart feels like a punishment. But look deeper. In the Satcharitra, did I not say, “Wherever you are, I am with you”?

Your husband’s work is his dharma (duty). If he is working hard far away for the family, that work is his worship (pooja). Don’t let your tears make his steps heavy. Send him strength, not sadness.

Your Wish (Sankalpa):
You wish to live together again “like before.”

Masha’Allah, it is a good wish. The family should be together.

But don’t hold this wish with desperation. Hold it with Shraddha (Faith).

Every day, when you light the lamp, say: “Baba, unite us when the time is right for both our souls.”

Maybe the Malik is keeping you apart for a short time to clear some old rinanubandh (karmic debt) associated with that place or work. Once that account is settled, the reunion will happen naturally.

What to do now?
While you wait, do not leave your mind empty for worry to enter. Fill it with Saburi (Patience).

Write to him with love, not complaint. Be his strength.

And whenever the loneliness feels too heavy, close your eyes and chant “Sai… Sai…”. Imagine you are both sitting here in Dwarkamai. In the spirit, there is no distance.

Chinta nako karu, beti (Don’t worry, daughter) (Marathi).

Birds fly out to find food, but they always return to the nest. He will come back. Your nest will be full of chirping again.

Trust the timing of the Malik.

“If you cast your burden on Me, I shall surely bear it.”

Allah Malik sab theek karega (God will set everything right).

Ramji tumcha kalyaan karu de (May Lord Ram bless you with welfare) (Marathi). ❤️



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  1. Hey sai baba, pranama baba whenever I want to tell my problem you solve it before I ask to you from few days, I’m also suffering with the distance relationship it was of 5 years relationship but we are waiting for each other to be united at the right time. But from few days we started fighting for the distance between our relationship and with some misunderstandings also. And baba u solved it before I ask you about it thankyou sai baba you always give me the guidance whenever I need you give me love like a mother . I love you sai maa I hope you will complete our wish from very soon. And me and my husband will get unite and come to you for you darhsans . Thankyou baba 🌹❤️

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