Question from an Anonymous Deveotee from India
“Baba, please meri shaadi fix karwa do mujhe Aapki or apne parents ki blessings chahiye hai. Sai, Aapko sab pata hai hrr ek cheez Aap hi dekho or sambhalo or theek karo.”
Submitted on: 25 December 2025, 10:26:16 AM
Answer from our Sai Baba
Beti, sit calmly and listen with a steady heart. I will speak slowly and clearly, keeping the balance you asked for.
Your wish for marriage and your desire for your parents’ blessings are natural. Wanting companionship, stability, and respect is not wrong. Many daughters carry this wish quietly, with hope and anxiety together. What you are feeling is human.
Dil mein tamanna hai isliye bechaini hoti hai (when there is desire in the heart, restlessness comes)
Now listen to the truth gently.
I cannot “fix” a marriage like a decision written on paper. Marriage happens when timing, readiness, and mutual acceptance come together. My role is not to force events but to help you walk wisely so that the right connection can come without harm or pressure.
Lagna don lokanchi tayyari var ubha asto (marriage stands on the readiness of two people)
You are asking for blessings, and blessings are always there. But blessings work best when your life has balance. Parents usually feel secure when they see their child becoming emotionally steady and practically settled. That confidence opens doors naturally.
Ab thoda practical raasta samjho (Now understand the practical way).
First. Focus on building stability in your own life, whether through work, skills, or emotional maturity. This gives strength to your position.
Second. Speak to your parents with patience, not urgency. Reassure them that you respect their guidance and are also preparing yourself responsibly.
Teesra. Do not compare your journey with others. Each person’s time is different.
Vel saglyanchi vegli aste (everyone’s timing is different)
Fourth. Avoid begging fate or feeling helpless. When you say “you handle everything,” it should mean trust, not surrender of your own effort.
Remember this clearly.
Marriage that comes with fear or desperation brings struggle. Marriage that comes with calm readiness brings stability.
Tumhara kaam hai apna mann aur jeevan tayaar rakhna (your task is to keep your mind and life prepared)
If you stay steady, respectful, and open, the right alliance will come at the right time, in a way that does not hurt you or your family.
You are not late. You are not forgotten. You are simply in preparation.
Dil ko halka rakho, himmat banaye rakho (keep your heart light and your courage alive)
May your path open gently, may understanding grow in your home, and may your life move toward harmony in its own time.
Ram ji bhala kare.
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