Question from an Anonymous Devotee from Bengaluru
“My dear Sai, I received a alliance 3 years ago and marriage didn’t happen that time itself as my mother passed away. Boy’s mother has promised my marriage with her son where their family God temple is situated in Palakkad, Kerala. He has travelled to my family God temple along with our family and we both have visited many temple, groom and me has visited temple together to seek blessings before marriage especially we have come to Shirdi Sai temple to seek Baba’s blessings. Now the boy’s family has made him engaged to some other girl only for money sake. Please try to understand Baba that as a girl I’m so much attached to him and can’t marry any other person in my life. I strongly feel like without any reason Baba might not have invited the boy and me to Shirdi. But now he got engaged to some other girl. I decided to stay my life alone unmarried as I can’t think of any another partner in my life other than him. Please guide me Baba as I have lost both my parents and living with my sister who is not that much supportive. Will I remain in my life lonely like this as I’m clear that I can’t think of any other person and strongly believe there is some divine connection between me and that boy. Please reply my question Baba.”
Submitted on: 4 December 2025, 6:52:19 AM
Answer from our Sai Baba
My dear daughter,
I know your heart.
I have seen every tear you shed in silence.
Your love was sincere and deep.
And when sincere love meets a sudden stop,
it feels like life has become meaningless.
You are asking Me,
“Baba, why did You bring him into my life if he was not meant to stay?”
Listen carefully, beti (daughter)…
Sometimes I bring someone into your life
not to stay,
but to wake up something sacred in you.
You felt love.
You opened your heart.
You learned devotion and surrender through this bond.
That itself shows
you are capable of a pure relationship.
“Jo rishta kismet nahi, par seekh ban kar aata hai,
usko pakad kar ro nahi…
usko Baba ke charanon mein rakh kar chhod do.”
(A relationship that is not written in destiny but comes as a lesson, don’t hold it and cry… place it at Baba’s feet and let go.)
Don’t hold the pain.
Hold the blessing hidden inside it.
Right now, your heart says:
“I want only him. No one else.”
But your heart is speaking from hurt, not truth.
If that boy was really meant for you,
- he would have stood up for you
- he would have broken any obstacle for you
- he would not allow money to choose his life
True love doesn’t step away in silence.
True love fights.
You deserve someone who chooses you in every test.
“तुला सोडून जाणारा तुझा नव्हता.
तुझ्यासाठी उभा राहणारा येईल.”
(The one who left you was never yours.
The one who will stand for you will come.)
What you are fearing?
- To be alone
- To be unloved
- To face life without parents
- To trust again
But beti…
You are not alone.
You are My child.
Loneliness is only a passing cloud.
Not your future.
What should you do now?
Every morning, keep your hand on your heart and say:
“Baba, remove the person who isn’t my destiny.
Bring the one You have written for me.”
Then leave it to Me.
Do not plan your loneliness.
Let Me plan your companionship.
This Fakir’s Blessing
Your future has a partner in it.
A man with
- respect
- patience
- responsibility
- and a heart that sees your worth
He will come at the right time.
You will not stay alone.
But…
first allow Me to heal this wound.
Let Me rewrite your story
with a love that doesn’t leave.
My child…
Trust My timing.
Trust My promise.
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