Question from an Anonymous Devotee from Tanuku
“Baba I feel like I’m stuck in my career my parents are not allowing me to change my job or study further due to financial hardships. I am reluctant to give up. I was unable to join courses because of high fee and pending EMI of loans taken by my family. The more I’m clearing loans the more they are taking new loans I’m unable to bear financial pressure .please show me a way out of this. Will I pass the exam and join good branch in a government college without any financial hardships?”
Submitted on: 25 December 2025, 9:59:15 AM

Answer from our Sai Baba
Beti, sit with this slowly and read without rushing your heart.
What you are carrying is very heavy. You are trying to grow, but you are tied by responsibility, loans, and family pressure. Anyone in your place would feel trapped. This is not weakness. This is overload.
Man bharun gelay, mhanun marg disat nahi (the mind feels full, so the path is not visible)
First, let me say this clearly and gently.
You are not wrong for wanting to move forward. Wanting education, growth, and a better future is not selfish. It is natural. At the same time, your family’s financial stress is real. That is why this feels like a knot with no end.
Now hear the truth, without fear.
Your parents taking new loans while you are struggling to clear old ones is not something you alone can carry. Responsibility does not mean silent suffering. It means learning where to draw boundaries.
Bojha ekach vyakti ne uchlaycha nasto(one person cannot carry everyone’s burden)
About your question directly.
I cannot promise that you will pass an exam or get a government seat by a fixed time. Baba never gave guarantees like that. But I can guide you toward a safer, wiser direction.
Right now, two things are clashing:
your wish to study and move ahead
the financial pressure at home
Trying to solve both at once is exhausting you.
Here is the practical way forward.
First. You must separate your future plan from family debt management. You can support, but you cannot become the only pillar. Have a calm, honest conversation with your family about limits. This is not disrespect.
Sach bolna avinay nahi (speaking truth is not disrespect)
Second. About studies and government college.
If fees are the main block, look seriously into:
scholarships
fee reimbursement schemes
education loans in your own name
low-cost or distance options linked to government paths
Do not abandon your goal, but adjust the route.
Third. About exams.
You can pass only when your mind has space. Right now, pressure is choking your focus. Reduce emotional load first. Even small relief helps concentration.
Halu halu man mokla zala ki abhyas jamto (when the mind becomes lighter, study settles)
Fourth. Please understand this deeply.
You are not responsible to repay every mistake others make. Helping family does not mean sacrificing your entire future.
Prem mhanje swatahala sampavane nahi (love does not mean erasing yourself)
You asked if there is a way out. Yes, there is, but it is not sudden. It is step-by-step:
boundaries with money
realistic study planning
external financial guidance
steady, not desperate, effort
You are not cursed. You are in a tight phase where courage and clarity are being shaped.
Tum ekti nahi ahat (you are not alone)
Walk slowly. Take one practical step at a time. Your life is allowed to grow.
Aata dhir dhara, raasta ughadto (hold patience now, the path opens)
Ram ji bhala kare.
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