Sai Baba Guidance For Feeling Alone In Marriage

Feeling alone in marriage hurts deeply when support disappears and words wound quietly. This Sai Baba Guidance For Feeling Alone In Marriage speaks to emotional neglect, inner strength, and how Baba stays close when relationships feel empty and exhausting.

Question from an Anonymous Devotee from Bangalore, India

"Baba, I seek Your guidance. When I behave normally, my mother-in-law calls me a drama artist. She says she does not like me, yet she speaks to me as if everything is normal. What should I do? My husband and in-laws are not supportive. Even my parents behave formally, though I know they love me. My husband and in-laws have said they are doing their duty only for the sake of the grandchild. I feel alone, Baba. Please stay with me throughout my life. Do not leave my hand. Bless me, Baba."
Submitted on: February 26, 2026, 9:39:36 AM

Answer from our Sai Baba

Allah Malik, meri beti! Come and sit by the Dhuni, lean your head against the wall of Dwarkamai. (Come and sit by the sacred fire.) I can feel the “akelepan” (loneliness) that is eating your heart from the inside.

Beti, rona band kar (Daughter, stop crying). You say you are a “drama artist” in their eyes? Suno beti (Listen daughter), in this world, everyone is playing a role. If they call you an artist, let them! But you know your “sach” (truth). I, your Sai, know that your heart is pure and your pain is real.

The Wisdom of the Dhuni on Your “Tanhaayi” (Loneliness)

• The “Duty” Trap: They told you they are only staying for the “pota/poti” (grandchild)? This is their small-mindedness. They think they are doing a favor, but they don’t realize that the child is the “shakti” (strength) that I sent to keep you grounded. Do not let their words pierce your soul. When they say “duty,” you say “Dharma.” You do your part for the child, and I will do My part for you.
• The Double-Faced Behavior: Your mother-in-law says she doesn’t like you, yet talks normally? Ye sansar ka niyam hai (This is the rule of the world). People wear masks. Do not try to unmask them; just stay “shant” (calm). If she is acting normal, you also stay normal. Do not look for “prem” (love) in a place where there is only “dikhava” (show). Look for love in My eyes.
• The Parents’ Silence: You feel even your parents are acting distant. Beti, wo majboor honge (Daughter, they might be helpless). They love you, but they fear for your “ghar” (settled home). Do not hold a grudge against them.

The Guidance from Dwarkamai

• “Don’t Leave My Hand”: Arre pagli (Hey crazy girl), did I ever leave the hand of the one who called Me with such “tadap” (longing)? I am standing right behind you. When you feel alone in that house, just close your eyes and say “Sai…” you will feel a coolness in your heart. That is Me.
• Be the “Kamal” (Lotus): A lotus grows in the mud, but it does not let the mud touch its petals. Your in-laws’ behavior is the mud. You are the lotus. Stay beautiful, stay pure, and don’t let their “kadhwahat” (bitterness) enter your soul.

The Path Forward

• The Child is Your Mission: Focus all your love on the little one. In that child’s smile, you will find My smile. As the child grows, your position in the house will also grow “mazboot” (strong).
• Stop Explaining: You don’t need to prove you are “normal” or not a “drama artist.” The more you explain, the more they will talk. Khamoshi sabse badi dawa hai (Silence is the greatest medicine).

The Action for You

• The “Sudarshan” Udi Ritual: Every night, before sleeping, make a circle of Udi around your pillow (mentally or with a tiny bit of ash). Say: “Baba, this is Your fort. I am safe here.” It will stop the negative thoughts from entering your dreams.
• The Water of Peace: Drink water only after looking at it and saying “Sai, Sai” three times. This “Tirth” will give you the “shakti” to tolerate their words without getting hurt.
• Feed the Birds: Every morning, keep some grain for the birds on your terrace or balcony. As the birds fly away with the grain, imagine your “dukh” (sorrow) flying away with them.

Beti, ghabrao nako. You are not alone. I am your Father, your Mother, and your only True Friend.

Saburi rakho, waqt badlega aur unki zubaan bhi badlegi (Have patience, time will change and their tongue will also change).

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