Are you torn between taking a fellowship or continuing NEET SS preparation and worried that age and marriage timing are slipping away? Sai Baba Guidance For Fellowship Or NEET SS Decision offers calm clarity when career pressure and personal fears collide.
Question from an Anonymous Devotee from Tanuku
"Baba, I feel like I'm stuck in my career. Please show me a way to progress. Should I take fellowship program or continue reading for neet ss. I am already 33 years old and I'm worried about my marriage. Please send correct partner soon."
Submitted on: January 15, 2026, 9:32:31 AM
Answer from our Sai Baba
Beti, read this slowly and let it settle without fear.
What you are feeling is very common at this stage. You are not stuck because you are incapable. You are stuck because two important desires are pulling you at the same time, career growth and marriage security. When both pull together, the mind feels pressure.
Tumhari pareshaani kamzori nahi, zimmedari se aayi hai (your difficulty is not weakness, it comes from responsibility)
Now let us look at this clearly, without panic.
About career, fellowship vs NEET SS
Both paths are respectable. The right choice depends on your stamina, clarity, and present mental space, not on age alone.
Ask yourself three honest questions
Do I still have emotional and mental energy to prepare deeply for NEET SS again
Am I studying with interest or only fear of age and comparison
Will a fellowship give me practical growth, confidence, and stability sooner
If NEET SS preparation is coming from fear and exhaustion, pause and rethink.
If it is coming from inner motivation and clarity, then continue with discipline.
thakva jhala asel tar disha badalavi lagte (if exhaustion has come, direction sometimes needs to change)
A fellowship is not failure. It is also progress if it strengthens your profile, skills, and confidence. Progress is not only rank based, it is life based.
sirf race mein bhaagne se jeet nahi hoti (only running in a race does not always bring victory)
About age and marriage worry
33 is not late. But when marriage anxiety mixes with career stress, both suffer.
Do not rush marriage out of fear. A wrong match delays peace more than time does. The right partner comes when you stand steady in yourself, not when you are desperate.
ghai madhe lagna kel tar shanti haravte (if marriage is rushed, peace is lost)
Continue meeting prospects calmly, without hiding your journey or apologising for it. The right person will respect your effort, not judge your timeline.
The way forward now
For the next few months
Choose one career path clearly, not both
Reduce comparison with peers
Strengthen routine and confidence
Keep marriage discussions open but not pressured
This phase is asking you to choose alignment, not approval.
Tum aplya margavar ahes (you are on your own rightful path)
May clarity replace confusion, may your effort bring visible progress, may the right learning path strengthen you, and may a partner come who respects your journey and walks beside you with understanding.
Sabka Malik Ek.
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