Sai Baba Helps With Relationship
Anonymous Shirdi Sai Devotee from India says: Om Sairam! Please keep my identity anonymous.
I finished my master’s from Singapore about three years ago. Due to the rules and regulations of international students, I was not able to apply for full-time roles. I wasn’t able to apply for any roles over there. I was working in the IT field although my background isn’t IT. I then had to return at the end of my visa. I am now back in India and life has been nothing short of misery.
I have a boyfriend who is from a different state from mine. We liked each other so much, but his mom was against the relationship. He fought with his mom for one entire year (mostly through phone calls), but she never accepted it. She was concerned about the state difference, language barriers, and cultural barriers. As days and months passed, our love grew stronger, but the hopes of his mom accepting us were lowering. A year later, we had to return to India. We couldn’t when the day came as that was the most dreaded day of my life. We both cried a lot and I was sure that it was the last time I was going to meet him.
We both came back to India and then we realized how hard it was to get a job here. We were in the middle of a pandemic. Returning from a foreign country, nobody in India wanted us because
A. We were overqualified and
B. We didn’t have any work experience.
We were trying to get into our core field, but then the pay was very low, as much as Rs. 10000. We were both still grieving our return from a country that gave us so much, only because we were unlucky. We slowly started having rifts, there were frequent fights as well and I could see us distancing from each other. Before he left, he had promised me that he was going to fight with his parents.
Two months after we arrived here, to our surprise, his mom accepted. I was totally surprised, but I have had a history of really bad incidents in my life so I couldn’t believe it. Two days from there, we had a small fight, which blew out of proportion. I sent him an email in anger. The email was about how I had adjusted with him when we were in Singapore and it came across like I was pointing out the situations where I supported him. On reading that email, he lost his temper and stopped talking to me, and told me that he wanted ‘just a few days’ time alone. I agreed to it. Slowly days became months and after 18 days I asked him when he was planning to come back and he said that he wasn’t sure.
I was literally in a pickle because I was turning 27 and marriage pressures had already started at home. Those three months of depression; are something that I can never forgive him about. After three months, he came back half-heartedly and he had changed into a different person. I had prayed to Baba so many times that he should come back and he did. I had also prayed that I would post it here. He only came back because of my Sai Baba. There are so many troubles, confusions, fights going on and our marriage talks haven’t gotten anywhere. Baba knows about it and while it’s sometimes hard to believe that He will be there for me, I am beginning to get restless. I hope He shows some miracle. I still haven’t figured out my career and I am turning old. I have so many problems right now that I don’t know which one to pray to Baba about. I at least want a job so that I have something to keep myself occupied.
I was raised in an abusive household, my dad and mom used to hit each other every other day and my mom used to hit me every time he hit her. I was insulted by people that supported my mom and I had to bear that because those people were my mom’s backbones. Because of all the insults, where they would make fun of my voice (I used to have blocked noses almost every day), and the way my mom and those people threatened me, I have grown into a bundle of insecurities with very low self-esteem and confidence. I am used to putting others first. I am so scared of hurting someone that I tend to give up on things that belong to me as well. I am really scared of marriages. I thought I found the right person and now everything seems to be changing and I don’t know what to do about it. For 21 years I kept hoping that someday I would come up well in life and be happy, but I think my fate is to always be sad and not have a good life. Even now, my mom fights with me every day, it’s not physical, but she is very possessive of me, scares me, and curses me every single day. I am working so hard day and night and she curses me easily saying that I won’t get a job.
I wanted to go back abroad and live there. I was hoping that I might be called once the pandemic eases. I have this habit of tossing coins in front of Baba and it always happens. I asked Baba if I would go back and he said, ‘no.’ Please Baba, I really worked hard to stay there.
Dear Baba, I know You will be there for me, but it’s been a long wait, Baba. Please help me.
Sai Baba Is Taking Care
Anonymous Shirdi Sai Devotee from the USA says: Om Sai Ram. I have been a Baba’s devotee since childhood. Thank you Hetalji and team.
Experience 1: My baby had not been eating food properly for the last 2 days. I prayed to Baba and mixed Udi in his food. Slowly he started eating properly over the next few days. However, he is becoming a picky eater and I pray Baba will help him to gain height and weight so that he is on track with the growth chart. He has his 18 monthly check-ups soon and I am a bit nervous.
Experience 2: One morning, a bright red spot appeared on my baby’s left eyeball. I wasn’t sure how it happened and if it was troubling him. I prayed to Baba, to help him recover and remove the red spot in his eye. I also prayed that I would post it here. Needless to say, the red spot lightened over the next few days and now it’s completely gone.
Experience 3: My daughter started getting constipated again (happened in a span of 1-2 months). Prayed Baba to help her and gave her Udi water for the next few days along with a stool softener. Baba helped her and avoided taking her to the doctor.
Experience 4: With Baba’s blessings, my kids are out of cold and coughing now.
Baba, with Your blessings I should get my periods soon Thandri. I am already late by 2 days and I am very worried Baba. Please help me and I will post about it here again.
Baba, You know how my husband is behaving with me these days. Please help me to pass through these tough times. Because it’s a love marriage, I don’t even know with whom I can share my problems/feelings.
Baba, please help us to buy a house here soon and also help me to get my EAD. First of all, please instill some confidence in me. I lost all confidence when I couldn’t find a job after my studies here. Now, it’s been almost 7-10 years since I graduated and now I’m busy with two little kids. Not even sure if I can get back into a good career path now. I want to help my husband financially and also take care of my aged parents.
Baba, You know that my sister’s husband has been creating a big problem after my marriage. He does not like love marriages and he started torturing us after my wedding. It’s been almost 6 years and he is not letting my sister and her kids talk to us. He is also not letting her talk to my other sister, just because she said that all castes are the same and she would continue talking to me (He wanted my other sister also to stop talking to me). My two sisters are twins and he is not letting them talk to each other also. He has also been torturing my aged parents about this. Baba, please resolve this issue and I will definitely post about it on this miraculous platform.
Baba, please bless the whole world and take care of all Your devotees. Sorry, sometimes I feel that You are angry with me. But I am sure You are just trying to help me out of my bad karma. Om Sai Ram.
Sai Baba’s Help
Anonymous Shirdi Sai Devotee from India says: Thanks to Hetalji and the team for their support.
Fight With Husband Resolved: I had an argument with my husband and he took it one step above by saying that he wanted to separate and get divorced. Baba, it does not matter what I do; he picks fault and puts me down. I am tolerating everything, Baba, please change his behavior towards me and make him be nice to me. Even though I wanted him to talk to me first, I let go of my ego and I approached him. Thanks for guiding me. Please let him understand his mistakes and make him support and trust me. Please make things better between us. Please help me, Baba! Om Sai Rakshaka Sharanam.
Son’s Trip: My son visited this past weekend and reached his college safely. Please stay with him, show him the right path and give him courage and strength. Please help him in his school.
Praying for good health for my husband, children, Mom, brother, sister, and their families.
Pain Disappeared With Sai Baba’s Grace
Anonymous Shirdi Sai Devotee from South Africa says: Om Sai Ram. I am a devotee of Baba from South Africa.
I have had many miracles from Baba and I am so thankful to have Him in my life. Yesterday, I was not feeling great; it felt as if I had a pain in my ovaries. It was very uncomfortable and painful. I felt this way the whole day.
When I got home, I was lying down on my bed and said to Baba to please help me. As I turned to my side, the pain had gone. I then fell asleep for about 45 mins and when I woke up, there was no pain, as if nothing was wrong. Thank You so much, Baba. I love You with all my heart and I offer my life to You at Your divine feet. Om Sai Rakshak Sharanam Deva! Om Sai Ram! Love You, Baba.
Thanks To Sai Baba
Anonymous Shirdi Sai Devotee from the USA says: Om Sai Ram to all Sai devotees. Thank You to the team for maintaining this blog as it gives us energy.
Om Sai Ram. I was in a very difficult situation and I was just praying to Baba that if He helps then I would share the experience and yes our beloved Baba helped me. There was another situation as well in which if Baba was not there to help then I would have been in a major confusion but our Baba was there for me. ‘Thanks’ is not enough for everything that You do for us, Baba. Love You, dear Baba. Thank You so much, Baba.
Sai Baba’s Help To Find The Lost Key
Anonymous Shirdi Sai Devotee from India says: Om Sai Ram. I am a small devotee of Baba. My husband lost his bike key and was unable to use the bike because of it. For nearly till one he was unable to trace it. So we prayed to Baba to help us find the key as it was essential. Within minutes we got the key hidden under the helmet. Thank You Sairaya. Hold our hands and guide us. Om Sai Ram!
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